Today let’s celebrate loving ourselves with reckless abandon. This is a day meant to honor the beautiful practice of extending love. Yet for many it is a day where they focus on the love they don’t have, aren’t receiving in the way they want, got the wrong gift, gave the wrong gift, got no gift or recognition. Where we focus our attention is so vital. If we focus on lack, that is what we get more of. Yet we are trained to focus on what isn’t working instead of what is. Problems scream out for attention. This is a challenging dynamic to shift, to get our attention OFF the issue and ON what is working for us.
Here is a tool from my web site: http://raisedinlove.com/tools/
❤❤❤ASKING THE BEST QUESTIONS Matt Kahn. An answer offers you a chance to exist however your questions frame you to be. This means life often provides you with experiences that are solely dependent upon how you choose to view yourself in the questions you ask. Lower vibrational experiences unfold whenever fixated on a question of why, just as the miraculous grace of high vibrational experiences blossom into being whenever asking a question of how. For example, the question, “Why doesn’t anyone like me?” invites life to offer you experiences to substantiate the idea that you aren’t liked. Even if around those who like you, it will seem to you as if you are viewed by others in whatever way keeps such a question in-tact. Conversely, asking the question, “How is it possible that I am this amazing, healthy, fulfilled, radiant, inspired, prosperous, and blessed?” allows life to offer experiences that confirm how amazing, healthy, fulfilled, radiant, inspired, prosperous, and blessed you already are. As a practice, pinpoint 1-3 adjectives that celebrate the highest experiences you wish to discover. Then add them into the following sentence: “How is it possible that I am this ___, ____, and ____?” Repeat it to yourself throughout the day as often as possible, especially in the aftermath of being triggered to discover a 5th dimensional way to rewrite your subconscious mind. As your subconscious mind is rewritten, you invite the Universe to welcome a brand-new frontier of creations into your reality. It also reveals the deepest answer to not be a conclusion or concept of any kind, but the discovery of a well-framed question. 
This is a tool I use myself daily. I focus on 4 qualities every morning. Then next morning I focus on any way, no matter how tiny or seemingly insignificant, that I have pulled in that quality the day before. This keeps my focus on the qualities I desire more of with out creating the inner resistance i find can arise with trying to use affirmations. I love this tool, give it a try and see what you think.
I am extending a huge, cuddly love wave to each of you. May you know how precious you are, may you know you are loved.
remembering the joy of being
