I was with my Wasband for 23 1/2 years. As our marriage began to unravel, so did I. Our whole family went into crisis. I had little bandwidth to be a parent. I had so much judgment about that. Writing about the things that I did that were supportive just now, how much I supported my daughter in being loving, and being compassionate, and supporting all her ideas to help the hopeless, made me see myself as a parent with new eyes. I literally had given little little attention to all the things I did so well as a parent It’s extremely powerful for me how as parents we can really get caught in the blame shame game. Wishing All of us find our way to freedom.
