Going through old photos and found this. Hermie and me in New Orleans back when; Hermie you were one of my favorite people of all time. I was so sad to lose touch with you. I still feel deep love for you. On the off chance that you see this or a friend of yours sees this I would be so grateful if you would reach out to me. He worked out of the New Orleans crew base in the 80s for Amtrak. I believe they moved to Seattle or Chicago when the New Orleans crew base got closed. In any case I will always love you.
And I went to name that I had the great great great fortune to have relationships with amazing men who treated me often with such exquisite care. If I if I was with one of my parents, it was certainly my mother as the role model when they say you end up dating one of your parents. There was only one exception, and in his case, it was extreme trauma that caused it to be less than delightful.